"We'll hang out son, go rafting maybe. This afternoon. I promise."
I didn't do it. My son's heart sank. My son trusts me. But each time I break a promise, and disappoint him, I confirm to him, that no one, not even his dad, keeps his promises.
He'll expect it less. He'll do it less.
Friendships. Marriage. Parenthood. There's a lot of implicit and explicit promises made in these relationships.
So, the next time I'm tempted to make a loose promise. I'm not going to think twice. I'm just not going to do it. Because they are important to keep.
And that's a promise.
1 comment:
This reminds me of something I read the other day - "[Moms and dads] need to see their parental role as a marathon, recognizing that building a relationship in which their child trusts them is even more important then whether they can trust their child regarding the immediate issues of the day." (Chap Clark)
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